Lap Dance Moves - Learn To Lap Dance

Want to inspire your guy with unforgettable LAP DANCE performance? How about learning some lap dance moves and giving him a private tease show? Here is how ...

1- The Grinding Circle Move

Stand about 60 centimeters (two feet) from your partner, with your feet slightly more than hip-width apart and your toes turned out. With your hips, begin to draw a circle, keeping your back arched. Now slowly bend your knees and grind down as far as is comfortable, then up again, continually undulating your hips and dancing erotically. It's really important to keep your back arched and upright. If you lean forward, you risk impersonating a sumo wrestler.

2- The Turn Move

Lap dancing is about showing off all your assets, so remember to turn around occasionally. For the best effect, turn slowly -- your lover should barely notice. When you practice, work out which direction is most natural for you to turn in. And don't be overly concerned with how you do it; just take small steps and aim to make the turn blend into and become part of your dance. Keep circling your hips and remember your arm movements. As far as possible, try to keep your lover in your gaze as you turn.

3- The Slap and Tickle Move

Turn your back to your audience, and with straight legs, bend forward slightly, look back at him coquettishly, and stroke or lightly slap your bottom. I guarantee this will make him smile. Alternatively, still with your back to him, gently sway from your ankles, opening your legs gradually. Slowly bend over so that your bottom is brazenly pointing at your man. Bend one knee to the side and straighten the other out to the other side. Glide your hand up the straight leg and raise your head over the corresponding shoulder to look back at him. Slap your bottom hard. Repeat on the other side.

See if you’d prefer The Breast Stroke or The Body Slide…

4- The Lap Dance Grind Move

Gracefully dance yourself into the triangle made by your lover's open legs, and stand with your back to him and your feet together. Make sure you're as close to the chair as possible. Now bend your knees, keeping your back straight, and gently put your hands on your partner's knees. Lower your bottom toward his lap so that you can just feel his crotch on your skin. Then, keeping your hands on his knees for support, grind down gently, moving your hips in a circular or forward-and-backward motion. Look over your shoulder at your man while you do this, if you can. This is a little tricky, though. Take extra care whenever you go near his groin. If you hurt him, he'll never trust you to dance for him again.

5- The Breast Stroke Move

Every woman has her own personal scent that collects between her breasts, no matter what size they are or what perfume she wears. It's a potent aphrodisiac. So this step is guaranteed to get your lover going. Move closely into the space between his knees. Standing with your legs straight, gently lean forward and place your hands on either side of the chair. Once you have a firm hold, push your breasts toward his face; his nose should be nestled in your cleavage. For added effect, try brushing from side to side and stroking the end of his nose with your bra or nipple. Keep moving in a provocative way throughout.

6- Knee Strokes Move

Facing your partner, stand between his legs, as close to the chair as you can. Place your knees in the space between his crotch and the edge of the chair. Gently put slight pressure against his groin with your knees. Lean toward him and blow gently into his ear or on his face. You could even exchange a mouthful of wine with him or pour champagne from your nipples into his mouth. As a variation, try this: Stand up facing your lover, then catch one of his knees between your knees and gently rub up and down his thigh. This is a fabulous sensation; ask him to do it to you sometime.

7- The Body Slide Move

Standing between your lover's thighs, lean forward and put your hands on the back of the chair for support. Put one knee on each of his thighs, then lift your torso, slide your knees into the space in front of his crotch (careful here!) and slide, slowly, all the way down his body until you're kneeling on the floor in front of him. To get up off the floor, use your lover's knees for support and stand up sexily -- bring your bottom up first, then flick your hair in his face as you raise your upper body.

Master Seductive Lap Dance

Lap dance is a man melting, tantalizing and erotic dance. Master this art to get seductive on the bed. Here are some useful guidelines to perform sensual lap dance that will make him ponder over you for life.

General rules

·                     You will never look sexy if you are bashful, embarrassed or hesitant. So perform only when you are in the mood to curl his toes. Lap dancing is all about showing off all your assets. So get down on the floor its time for some late night thrill.

·                     Be careful while selecting the music. Slow and sensual is the best. Practice to the beat several times before giving the final performance.

·                     Be colorful and sensual while choosing the outfit. Wear a bold outfit and make up that he has never imagined you with. Have on your sexiest red bra, g-string, stockings and long boots or stilettos. However make sure to keep your man fully clothed.

·                     Light the room with just two or three fragrant candles until your confidence grows. This will also help you to cover up all the mistakes and fill him with more desire. Select the seating for your partner and plan the whole set up of the room according to his interest. Select a chair that is preferably a sturdy one with arms.

Get started
Before you begin the tantalizing act, remember you are his private dancer and can get seductive only for him. Make sure to explain the ground rule at the beginning. The rule is 'Hands Off!' Only you can do the touching; any touching by him will end the lap dance.

Start the move about three feet in front of him, by swaying your hips sensually in a swirl motion. Once you are right in front of him place one foot on the floor between his feet, and the other on the arm of the chair. Let him smell your body and have a closer look at all your assets. Caress yourself in a seductive move the way he would like to touch you. Move your hands up your legs to your thighs. Remember, men love to see women enjoying their bodies. Have an eye contact and remember to smile like a seductive woman. Stick your bottom towards his lap and move your body near his bust. Put your hands on the arms of the chair and lean your breasts into him, rubbing them over his face and down his body. Tease him by pulling yourself back and forth.

Talk naughty. Tell him what is in store for him. When he is up to make love, turn your back to him and flick your hair in his face as you raise your upper body. With straight legs, bend forward slightly, look back at him flirtatiously, and lightly slap your bottom and remind him the ground rule. Strip your clothes (if you are wearing anything more other than the bra and g string) in this order blouse, skirt, stockings, bra and g-string or thong. Throughout the performance move away from your partner and dance for a few moments with the beat, allowing him to see your every asset, then move back closer again. When the music sweeps away in the darkness, break the lap dance rules and get active on the mattress.

Part 1: How To Prepare For Giving Your Man The Sexiest Lapdance Of His Life!
 

Choosing The Best Music:
Creating A Sensual Atmosphere:

Making Your Body Look Its Hottest:

Dressing Sexy For A Lapdance:

Part 3: How To Perform The Seven Basic Lapdance Moves
 

In Part 3 of Lapdance Unleashed you'll follow along as Tiffany Claire demonstrates how to perform the seven basic moves of a good lapdance. This section includes step-by-step online videos, pictures and written instructions to make learning these moves as quick and fun as possible.

Here are the seven basic lapdance moves you'll learn...

Learn To Move Your Hips Seductively...

Seductive Hips: Knowing how to move your hips is vital to a good lap dance. They represent your sexual abilities and are where the dance begins and ends. In this section you'll learn how to gyrate, swing, thrust and literally hypnotize your man with your hips.
 

Master The Stripper Strut...

The Stripper Strut: Learn the 'stripper strut' that professional dancers use to enhance their features when they're walking. In this section you'll learn correct posture, how to place your feet when walking, and even how to angle your head for maximum sexiness!

Learn The Barefoot Stripper Strut...

The Stripper Strut - Barefoot: Walking barefoot on your tip-toes forces your chest out, arches your back and pushes your chest and butt out making it appear rounder and more attractive. Use these tips to look irresistible and feel confident while dancing on your toes.

Pose Like A Pro Stripper...

The Stripper Pose: Men are very visual creatures. So it's no surprise that how you look when posing is an important part of a good lapdance. In this section you'll discover various different ways to pose while standing up, on the floor, or crawling towards your man.

Caress Your Body To Turn HIM On...

Sweet Caress: To sell more, marketing professionals commonly try to get their customers to imagine themselves with their product in hand. You can take advantage of the same effect during your lapdance by softly caressing your body with your hands. This section reveals exactly how to do just that.

Learn Sexy Facial Expressions...

The Look That Kills: No matter how good your moves, your costume, your music, or your props, a bad facial expression can ruin everything. Here you'll learn how to master your facial expression using your lips, eyes and head angle to look dead sexy for your man.

Learn How To Grind On His Lap...
 

Hind Grinding: This is what puts the 'lap' in 'lapdance', so you want to make sure you get it right. This section reveals how to seductively mount your man and then what to do once you're up there. Master this and it will be all your man can do not to jump you right there.

Part 4: How To Master The Six Advanced Lapdance Moves
 

In Part 4 of Lapdance Unleashed you'll watch as our model guides you through each of the six advanced lapdance moves, step-by-step. Use these moves when you're ready to take the lapdance to the next level and really turn your man on!

Once again, you'll master these moves by studying our online videos and then following along with the written instructions and pictures. And because you'll have access to all this right online you can watch the videos as many times as you need to until you've mastered every move.

Here are the six advanced lapdance moves you'll learn...

Give Him A Hot View Of Your Body With 'The Side Flash'...

The Side Flash: This move provides your man with the best possible view he could ask for. But do it wrong and you'll look more like you're squatting to pee than performing a show for your man.
 

Stand Over Him Seductively...

Standing Over Him: Standing over your man and letting your crotch take center stage is great when you're ready to really turn him on. This section covers how to position yourself, how to move your hips and how to get your man super-aroused by touching yourself!

Impress Him With 'The Spider'...

The Spider: By far one of the most advanced moves you can do when performing a lapdance, "The Spider" is great when you really want to impress your man and get him thinking naughty thoughts about you. In a 4-step process you'll learn how to pull it off like a professional and then get out of it again with grace and confidence.

Give Your Man The Chills...
 

The Chills: This is a very sexy little trick I learned from a women who TRAINS the most successful exotic dancers in the world. It can be combined with most of the advanced moves to give him the chills and send shivers up and down his spine!

Learn To Look Sexy On The Floor...

On The Floor: A good exotic dancer never forgets to include the floor in her routine, and neither should you. This section will reveal how to perform "the scissor kick", "the worm", and "the aerobics class spread" while moving erotically on the floor.

While On The Floor, Transition Into 'The Crawl'...

The Crawl: Now that you're on the floor the next step is to slowly crawl towards your man with teasing, bedroom eyes. In this section you'll learn how to crawl seductively, how to arch your back and then what to do when you get to him!